_B-PEN (Brookline Parent Education Network)
helps parents navigate the
social, emotional and developmental challenges affecting today’s teens and
pre-teens – common challenges that can lead to risky behavior. An outreach
initiative that collaborates with Brookline school administrators and PTO’s,
the organization’s goals are to facilitate parent connections:
* with other parents,
* with school and town resources, and
* with helpful information via written/electronic materials on a wide variety of
PARENTS' SURVIVAL GUIDE FOR SUMMER
As we come to the end of the academic year, the busy, ordered structure of school slides into the lazy days of summer. Kids feel looser and parents often relax the rules as vacation mode kicks in. But with more free time and fewer consequences, summer can also be the riskiest time of the year for middle and high school kids. From drug/alcohol experimentation to sexual activity, risky behavior tends to rise with the temperatures, and research shows that young people with unsupervised hours are three times more likely to engage in risky behavior and use marijuana, alcohol and other drugs. B-PEN offers these ideas for keeping adolescents safe this summer while enjoying vacation fun in the sun…
SUMMERTIME ACTIVITY TIPS
GUIDELINES FOR A SAFE SUMMER
BROOKLINE RECREATION DEPARTMENT
BROOKLINE TEEN CENTER
LGBTQ BULLYING STARTS EARLY
But parents can make a huge difference. Check out this recent report on WBUR.
DAY OF DIALOGUE, DAY OF SILENCE
On April 16, BHS held its annual Day of Dialogue, in which the Gay-Trans-Straight Alliance sponsored assemblies all day to raise awareness about the struggles of gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender and queer youth and to help to make BHS safer, more accepting, and better informed. Panels and presentations gave powerful testimony to the vast range and unique challenges of the LGBTQ experience. Audiences were packed and enthusiastically supportive as students and faculty shared their stories.
This year’s event gave an extra focus on gender identity and what it means to be transgender, genderqueer, genderfluid, or non-binary, since BHS has an increasing number of students who identify in this way. The BHS community learned about “coming out,” “letting in,” that “they” is a legitimate pronoun, and that gender identity and sexuality is not necessarily either/or but rather a rich spectrum that doesn’t always invite convenient labeling. As one student so eloquently put it, “If you shove a fragile object into a misshapen box, it will be damaged.”
The following day, BHS observed Day of Silence. As part a national annual observance, many students at the school declined to talk during the day to raise awareness of the thousands of people who stay silent about being LGBTQ for fear of bullying and harassment. B-PEN urges you to ask your students about these two moving, stimulating days and continue the conversation at home.
THE CHANGING FACE OF MARIJUANA -Revisiting the Conversation with Adolescents
With the legalization of marijuana in other states and the legalization of medical marijuana here in Massachusetts, cannabis is very much a part of our culture, and there is a shifting spectrum of attitudes. How does this impact the conversations we are having with teens? How do we clear up misinformation and misperceptions and prevent the development of marijuana abuse disorders among our youth? This was the focus of a recent forum bringing together Brookline students, parents, and school/health administrators and staff. Read the complete Parent Update to learn:
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HEADS UP ON TINDER
In response to parents’ concerns, B-PEN offers a heads up on Tinder, a popular hook-up app that some BHS teens use to meet others in the area, including older college students and adults. The photo and messaging app has little privacy control and allows users to browse photos of potential matches within a geographic area, swiping right to "like" a photo or left to "pass." If both users swipe "like," the app offers the option to chat, which can evolve into setting up a meeting in person, sometimes resulting in Brookline kids going to college parties. This app is even filtering down to students in the middle school grades, which can be an open door to predators. According to Common Sense Media, this should be a “no-go” for kids. Talk to your teen about Tinder…
PARENTS URGE STUDENT MENTAL HEALTH AS A PRIORITY
Did you know that according to DrugFree.org, less than half of teens with mental health disorders get needed help? Brookline's Wellness Committee summit, “Youth & Mental Health: Balancing the Wellness Wheel,” helped generate strategies to foster a "whole child” approach to youth mental health and overall wellbeing. Parent members of the committee met further, coming up with three key recommendations, reflected in this letter to the Brookline TAB.
SPOTLIGHT ON ADDERALL
Did you know that according to a recent national study, 11% of all teens aged 13 to 17 have been prescribed stimulant medication like Adderall or Ritalin for attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD)? That’s a lot of medication floating around, and for those who need it, these drugs can be extremely effective.
But according to a 2012 survey by The Partnership at Drugfree.org, in conjunction with the MetLife Foundation, an additional one in eight teens (13%) now reports that they have taken one of these stimulants when it was not prescribed for them. At BHS, 12% of all seniors admitted to abusing amphetamines not prescribed to them. Reasons ranged from self-medication and weight loss to study aids and recreational use – the sustained “high” from stimulants allows students to party longer.
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Drug Free Action Alliance's report...
PARENT NETWORK CONNECTIONS
One of B-PEN’s primary missions is to provide opportunities for parents to connect with one another regarding some of the common social/emotional issues all our adolescents face as they develop. To complement regular PTO meetings, grade-geared Parent Network get-togethers at each school provide opportunities for helping parents get to know, support and strategize with one another around common developmental concerns. **Check out the Discussion Guides for Parent Networks** created to support Parent Network meetings. For help starting a Parent Network or more information on B-PEN’s offerings and resources, contact B-PEN coordinators June Harris, firstname.lastname@example.org or
Karen Campbell email@example.com